Visiting a Turkish home: shoes, slippers and tea
What usually happens at the door and at the table when you are invited into a Turkish home, and the one phrase worth learning before you go.
Everyday Turkey beyond the paperwork: what happens when you visit someone at home, how to read a price tag, and the few words that help at a market.

Not laws or rules: habits that many people here share, and the words that go with them.
Paperwork decides whether you can stay. Everyday customs decide how the first months feel: what to do with your shoes at someone’s door, how to read the number on a price tag, what to say at a market stall.
Customs differ between families, cities and generations, so this section describes what is common, not what is required. Every custom and phrase here is checked against at least two independent sources, and Turkish spelling against the dictionary of the Turkish Language Association (TDK).
Pronunciations are our own approximations for English speakers, not a substitute for hearing the words. Start with the three short articles below.
Published and reviewed material for this section.
On a Turkish price tag the dot separates thousands and the comma marks decimals. How to read the number, and how to say it.
How to ask what something costs, say it is too much and ask for a small discount, and where bargaining is normal.
From heating and water to school and the doctor: what to find out about the building and the area before you live there.
What the building charge can include, where heating ends up inside it and which documents to ask for before you sign.
What ‘furnished’ actually promises, why you need an inventory and who is better off with an empty flat.
Three layers of checks, by eye, by question and by document, so you do not discover the terms of the lease after you move in.
Which area is called brüt, net and genel brüt, where it is really recorded and why you will not find it on the tapu.
Which documents the distributors ask for, what ‘subscriber’ and the deposit mean and how to check the previous tenant's arrears.
How to check the status of an imported phone, the SIM card and the subscriber details separately, and work out why a line may stop working.
How to ask about enrolment in the middle of the school year, prepare documents from the previous school and check how they are recognised.
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